A bone and other rituals about gastronomy
My grandfather on mother’s side wasn’t notable for sweet temper. Because of the war, shoulder straps and his position he was unsociable, silent and he afraid of his own shadow. The only one person about which he cared and worried was his wife and my grandmother... Concerning the fact that we lived two short blocks from Privoz market and there were two constantly empty near us, my grandfather went to the market every day early in the morning and always by himself.
After Privoz first of all he told to my grandmother about that he saw, and then he complained of the prices about 15 minutes and only then unwrapped the purchases.
The standard ritual repeated almost every day. My family was big – seven people. It goes without saying that everybody ate at home solely, because there weren’t the restaurants, and those ones that worked actually, sold only «boozes-dances» in the evening and disgusting cookery, boiled eggs almost daily and chicken-tapaka smeared with tomato paste on high days and holidays.
Now about ritual. My grandfather unwrapped the package with meat especially carefully, so that everybody noted importance of the moment. Then he demonstrated to grandmother one or another part of meat very slowly and gently and… he always founded inside a bone 150 grams by weight. Then sounded the phrase: «They slipped it again! » - and long explanation, according to his words while he examined the counter and talked with the butcher, the bone got into the package and only then he was announced the weight and price. My grandmother carried out the psychotherapy session and convinced herself and grandfather that it’s all right…and anyway it needs to cook the bouillon.
And this situation repeated almost every day except Monday. Privoz was closed on Monday. And my grandfather didn’t visit another markets...
All the time that I remember my grandparents, they always ate from one plate. I don’t know, the display of what was that ritual, but it also was observed strictly.
Only my grandmother cooked always. My mother also tried to cook, but that meal which she cooked could eat only totally not fastidious father. My brother and I got the food from grandmother’s pans. I liked meatballs with sour-sweet sauce and my brother liked pilaf. Once, I remember, it was almost criminal story with pilaf. My grandmothers cooked it in small cauldron and twist it by blanket, expecting for dinner. Dima and I found the cauldron and just tasted the pilaf, and then ate it up. At that time I was about 13 years old, and my brother was only 5 respectively. I washed and dried the cauldron carefully and hided it in the kitchen cabinet as far as possible. At a moment when my uncle returned from work, my grandmother came to warm up the dinner… but she didn’t find the pilaf. That evening my uncle ate the sandwiches. Then my mother and grandfather looked for pilaf all the evening. I was got involved in the process also.
The next morning my mother found empty cauldron and almost convinced the grandmother that the pilaf wasn’t exist at all...